Taking Time to Breathe

"I have this great guy you should meet."

"You should sign up for a dating service, get out there!"

I hear this stuff every day.  I have thought long and hard about it, but I am just not ready.  Everything in my life right now is about LG and myself.  Yes, it is true, I had some one that I emotionally relied on, but he isn't in the state.  We weren't "dating."  It was different.

When I think about dating, I panic.  Sure I loving going out with people and I wouldn't mind some good company but there are still things I need to work through.  I can't make the same mistakes in any future relationship so I have to take the time now to learn from my mistakes and figure out how to fix them.  Even on top of that, LG is in my EVERY thought when I think about my future.  I have step-parents.  It hasn't always been easy going and that is in the back of my mind always.

Remember the day you married and people instantly starting asking when you are going to have kids?  That is what I am going through right now.  The good thing is, I am ok with my situation right now.  When I am ready, then I will dive in.  Until then, back off please.

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  1. YFSeptember 22, 2010 at 7:42 PM

    I'm innocent! :-) I steered you away from Jdouble! Good for you to take time and figure out what you can about yourself. That is great. If you have an extra cycle and you want to figure me out, please let me know. xoxox C

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  2. Lia FreitasSeptember 23, 2010 at 2:14 PM

    OMG Crystal you did save me from JDouble. Amen to you!

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